founding essay

Something is Tearing Us Apart

The root cause of humanity’s growing divide — and what can actually heal it

Scott McIntosh & Angela McIllece

Co-Founders, Human Flourishing

Y​​ou feel it. Everyone does. You feel it when a conversation at the dinner table turns into a confrontation. When a lifelong friendship fractures over a political opinion. When you scroll through the news and notice that your first instinct is no longer curiosity — it’s dread. When you watch institutions you once trusted — science, universities, journalism, government — behave in ways that seem less like honest inquiry and more like tribal warfare.

We carry in our pockets more computing power than sent humans to the moon. We have reduced extreme global poverty by two-thirds in a single generation. We stand on the verge of artificial intelligence that could help cure cancer, reverse climate change, and unlock human creativity at a scale never before imagined.

And yet something is tearing us apart.

Political divides are not merely deep — they are becoming irreconcilable. Neighbors who once disagreed now view each other as enemies. Ideas that history tested and found catastrophically wanting — authoritarianism, collectivism, strongman nationalism — are finding new audiences in every corner of the world, including societies that should know better. Social media, designed to bridge humanity, has instead become the most efficient engine for division ever invented. The very institutions built to anchor shared reality — universities, scientific bodies, news organizations, government agencies — have themselves been captured by the same tribal forces they were supposed to help us transcend.

This is not hyperbole. It is the defining challenge of our time. And like all genuinely important challenges, it has a root cause that most of the conversation around it is missing entirely.

That root cause is this:

We are choosing fear when we could be choosing love.

Everything else in this essay — every fracture, every failure, every missed possibility — flows from that single truth. And it is a truth that neuroscience, ancient wisdom, and the lived experience of billions of human beings all confirm.

why human flourishing exists

Human Flourishing is a non-partisan civic movement platform built to address this challenge directly. It exists to convene serious thinkers and leaders for rigorous, cross-perspective inquiry into the science and philosophy of human thriving — to build the moral and social habits that sustain flourishing individuals and communities — and to become a movement that thoughtful people across every social and economic perspective can authentically join.

Human Flourishing is not trying to replace the many organizations already doing important work in this space. It is trying to do what none of them are positioned to do alone: synthesize and amplify those efforts while asking the hard questions that most institutions, for reasons of politics, funding, or social pressure, are not willing to ask publicly. The questions about governance, family structure, poverty, economic freedom, and institutional failure that the full picture of human thriving demands.

This essay is the founding statement of that mission — an attempt to name the problem clearly, explain its root cause honestly, and lay out the questions that will guide everything Human Flourishing does in the years ahead.

The most consequential thing you can do for your family, your community, and the world you share with eight billion other human beings is to become someone who chooses wisely under pressure.”

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This is the first of eight essays. One for the founding.
One dedicated to each of the Seven Pillars.